This will work without cutting the axle: Ya know the notches in the axle? And the slit on the side of the light gray piece that's stuck? Well take a sewing pin or something thin like that and push the axle with the notches out with the pin. I've done it before, it works!
jimmy a pare of plires in behind then in between if that doesnt work your gonn have to get someone to cut the two way connector as it is the most commen peice and therefor easily retreivable. hope that helps.
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